Getting Rid Of Your Tummy
September 20, 2006 by Lesley-Ann Graham
Filed under Health & Beauty
If there is one part of their body that most women and men hate, it’s usually their tummy. Very soon after their teens something happens and suddenly…there it is; a round belly which the majority call the pooch. The love handles may sound cute but they aren’t that appealing whether they are on men or women.
If you are asked, you’re bound to say you can’t really pin point when it started growing. It was just suddenly there. With your wedding coming up, you’d love to lose the bulge but don’t want to do anything drastic.
The good news is, yes, you can improve your midsection. The bad news is, it will take time and effort on your part; but that isn’t so bad right? After all, doing this will not only make you look better for your wedding, it will also make you healthier. That is a goal worth having.
The last thing that you should do is go on a crash diet. That really won’t work in the long run. You may find yourself 5 pounds lighter but no flatter in the tummy. Food is only one aspect of getting a better waist.
The first thing you need to do is take stock of how much time you have to get ready until your wedding day. The more time you have the better for you. You’ll be able to make changes more gradually but have more time to really work on your goal.
Next you need to decide what exactly you want to achieve. For example, you need to decide if what you want is to have is a firm, taut belly or are you just content with losing two to five inches from the front. It helps to be very clear about what you want to achieve.
Also very important, consult your doctor before you start any exercise or diet program. They may have some useful advice to give you that will help you achieve your goal. They can also help you choose activities and methods that are best suited for you.
Controlling your sugar intake will definitely help. Among the major reasons for a big tummy are beer, carbonated drinks and too many pastries. Ease up on your intake of softdrinks, powdered juices, alcohol and sweets. Start drinking more water and eat more fresh fruits and vegetables instead. You’ll be amazed at how big a difference it can make.
Exercise is one of the most important things that you can do for yourself. If you want to lose the bulging middle, you’ll need to work your abdominal muscles. Crunches are your friend. Don’t worry that you need to be flat on the floor and have to do four hundred. You’ll probably do at least ten a day, more as you get stronger. If you don’t like the standard crunch, check out exercises on the ball like Gunnar Petersen’s Core Secrets work out.
Most importantly, work on your posture. You’ll be surprised how much difference simply standing straight can make a difference in your form. Your measurements may not change but you will look a whole lot better.
Make Me Slim For My Wedding Day!
August 16, 2006 by Lesley-Ann Graham
Filed under Health & Beauty
Every bride wants to look simply beautiful on their wedding day. They want to be able to look back at their wedding pictures and say, “I looked absolutely svelte and gorgeous”. The last thing they want to say is, “I knew I should have lost more weight!”
Some brides will take the extreme route. They will stop eating. They take the crash diet method to slimness. They will try every crash diet or fad diet they can to help them achieve the weight that they want. Ladies, please don’t do this to yourselves. You will do your body harm that you may not feel immediately but will truly not be good.
Just be sensible. The formula is simple. Amount of calorie intake less the amount of calorie used equals the amount left to become fat. If you burn off everything you eat, you won’t gain. If you eat food that will help your body consume more calories, such as fiber foods, you can lose even more of your unwanted body fat without starving.
Check out the 3 hours a day diet of Jorge Cruz. His plan is simple, easy to follow and tasty. Plus, you never get hungry! Team it up with the exercises that he recommends and you’ll be on the way to a slimmer more shapely silhouette in no time.
Ladies, try not to become obsessed with your weighing scale. As all dieticians, nutritionist and fitness trainors will tell you it is normal to gain a pound or two periodically. It is also normal for you to lose no weight at some point; this is what they call a plateau. In fact some fitness trainors will tell you that rather than your weight, your BMI or body mass index and the fit of your clothes can be a better guage.
It really comes down to how much time you give your self to whip your body into shape. It takes time to achieve a sustainable form. No surgery, pill or diet can transform you into a size 2 overnight.
Don’t forget that getting the weight off will only be half the battle. Once you achieve your desired size, you will need to maintain it. You aren’t likely to keep it down if you find yourself celebrating too often. Your friends are really happy that you are getting married but you don’t need multiple shower parties.
Don’t be shy about getting into a gym. Most women feel concious because it feels like everyone is staring at them; and it may be true. You can be assured though that in a good gym, that won’t be the case. Almost everybody there will be too intent on their own routines to bother you; and the ones who do nothing but stare or whisper aren’t worth your time or attention. Just focus on your vision: lookig perfect on your wedding day. That is your motivation!
You can do it. Just set yourself an achievable goal. Have clear purpose and find a good coach then keep at it. Before you know it, you’ll be sashaying down the aisle in the body you wanted.
Beauty Tips for the Bride
July 13, 2006 by Lesley-Ann Graham
Filed under Health & Beauty
Preparing for your wedding looks begins the moment you decide to get married. What you can do to enhance your beauty even more is now dependent on how much time is left between now and your wedding date. There is no time to waste so let’s get started.
First off, drink lots of water. Our body needs at least 8 glasses of water a day to cleanse and refresh our system. Drinking juices, teas or any other beverage does not count though your body appreciates the liquid. These drinks are laced with sugar and caffeine which do not do you much good. In fact for every cup of coffee you drink, you need 2 glasses of water to clean up the mess it leaves behind. For soft drinks (diet or otherwise) have 4 additional glasses of water. The sugar in those things are high and can make you bloated.
By simply increasing your water intake, you will feel less hungry so you slim down a little. With your system getting hydrated better, you’re system will be cleaner and your skin will be clearer. You’ll look even more radiant!
Second, lay off the fatty food and chips. You’re sitting in front of the TV or in the theater happily munching away. In the meantime those things add oil, lard, too much salt and trans fat into your body. They are what clogs up your arteries and increases your weight. Ease up on the junk food and oily stuff and you’ll notice your skin will also be less acne prone and oily.
Third, get at least eight hours of sleep everyday. Your body needs to rest and recharge. It requires sufficient time to recover from the stress that you put it through. Our skin, particularly around the eyes will show if you lack rest. The face becomes haggard and sags. Only proper and sufficient rest rounds it out again and removes the shadows under our eyes effectively.
Sleeping in the daytime really isn’t the same. Your body responds to the natural rhythm of the sun and the moon. Notice that you still feel loggy-headed even after 8 hours rest if you take it during the day? Your body shut down because it needs to recharge but by no means did you get sufficient rest.
Getting your proper beauty rest will also help you to avoid midnight snacking which is one of the biggest reasons people gain weight. Your body doesn’t process food well before it shuts down in sleep. What you eat doesn’t get digested properly and just becomes fat.
Lastly, learn to care for your skin properly. It is what everybody sees. No matter what makeup you use, nothing substitutes for beautiful skin, inside and out. Find out what skin products really work with you. Learn to use the correct facial soap, toner and moisturizer to keep your skin clean. You may not realize how deeply dirt can get into your pores.
Make these things a habit and see the results for yourself. You’ll be happily amazed at how these simple steps can turn you from gorgeous to glowing and naturally beautiful.
Get Physically Fit For Your Wedding
July 11, 2006 by Lesley-Ann Graham
Filed under Health & Beauty
If you are serious about being trim and fit for your wedding, you need to keep in mind that it will not happen overnight. If anyone tells you that you will be model slim in just a couple of days run out of there as fast as you can and don’t look back. When it comes to fitness there is no magic pill or quick fix. The best solutions take time.
Now some brides are blessed to already have a good body that just needs toning or firming up. For the women, the most obvious area they want to improve is their tummy. Every bride wants to have that slim waist that looks so sexy. It will also look absolutely great when you get into your bikini on your honeymoon.
Thankfully, gone are they days when people would tell you that you need to do 300 sit ups, crunches and leg-lifts every day to get your belly flat. A sensible trainer will tell you the quality of your workout is more important. You can achieve good results doing ab work outs like in Pilates.
Another area is the triceps. Once you are out of your teens your triceps sag if you don’t exercise them. The last thing you want is to wave at your guests as you leave in your honeymoon car and have your triceps wagging byebye as well. Ladies, watch the “Princess Diaries” and learn to wave gracefully so as to minimize the wobbling above the elbow.
It will never hurt to exercise those arms. If you don’t want to use any weights, why not try doing some tricep dips? You can do this anywhere using a sturdy chair or your bed as a prop and your body weight for resistance. If you have dumbbells, you have more options. You can do tricep kickbacks, tricep extensions and the tricep press.
Now ladies, some of you aren’t comfortable with lifting weights. You don’t want to develop bulky muscles which is why you’re reluctant. The good news is developing bulky muscles is very hard for women. You really have to work out for a long time and life heavier weights to do that.
Seriously, you don’t have to lift weights if you don’t want to. A good pilates class will teach you how to develop a leaner, stronger body without the bulk. For those of you who aren’t familiar with Pilates, it is one of the favorite ways dancers keep fit and trim. It is fun to do and can be done anywhere. Why not check if there is a class in your gym and try it out?
It is always more fun to work out with a partner rather than alone. Why not ask your bridesmaids to work out with you? You can motivate each other to get into shape and have fun shaping up for your wedding. It will also be a great memory of friendship between you.
Don’t wait until the wedding is almost upon you before starting. The more time you give yourself, the easier it will be. Exercising may even become a habit and you’ll stay fit and trim long after the wedding is done.
Your Dream Wedding : Be Healthy and Wise
July 1, 2006 by Lesley-Ann Graham
Filed under Health & Beauty
It is a month or less away from your wedding day. Everything is in place. You have the church and restaurant of your choice. The menu is mouth watering and sure to satisfy everyone’s tummy. The cake not only looks gorgeous, it is delicious. All the gowns are ready. Your family and friends are all arriving. The plans for your dream wedding have been followed perfectly. All you need to do now is greet your guests as they arrive, have your shower or stag party and actually say your I dos.
There is a lot of pressure on most couples while preparing for their nuptials. With so many decisions to make and trying to fit everything into an already busy schedule, most brides and grooms are just dying to have a day or two that are wedding plan free.
That is an absolutely wonderful idea! You need time to enjoy your relationship and just savor having found each other. Go ahead and have some fun and just date.
Just a reminder: take care not to get sick. We all know that there are bugs and germs everywhere. The last thing anyone wants is to go out for a swim and come home with a cold (not to mention tan lines that may mar the look of your gown).
Here are some suggestions on how to avoid being under the weather on your wedding day:
Get sufficient sleep. Most people who live in the city keep late hours. They sleep at almost midnight, sometimes beyond and get up before seven. Our body demands quality sleep. It needs 8 hours of sleep at night. Sleeping at two in the morning until ten isn’t sufficient. The more rested the body is, the better it can fight infections.
Eat a balanced and healthy diet. Most brides are concerned with being slim and trim on their wedding day. Everyone wants to look glamorous on that special day. This does not mean however that you should starve yourself. Crash diets will cause your weight to drop for a while but they may also cause your immune system to go down. Better to carefully plan, prepare and eat balanced meals everyday.
Make sure you are getting sufficient vitamins and minerals. Make sure that your body is getting sufficient quantities of what it needs to be able to function at its best. Consult your doctor on what supplements you may take, if you choose to add this to your lifestyle.
Exercise. You don’t need to suddenly get into weight lifting or long distance running. You can join an aerobics class or dance class. Just for fun ladies, why not try pole dancing or belly dancing for fitness? It gives a great work out and you can use what you learn on your wedding night.
Prevention is the best medicine is one of the favorite sayings of our elders for a reason. It never hurts to be fit and healthy. In fact it is wise. Side benefit: you will look absolutely stunning in your wedding outfits.

