Natural Beauty Brought Out
November 8, 2006 by Lesley-Ann Graham
Filed under Health & Beauty
If you are like most women, you cannot help but think you aren’t beautiful enough. You don’t believe your fiance when he tells you that you look beautiful. You think he says that because he loves you. You are partly right.
The truth is nature granted you great beauty. You may just need to choose the style that brings it out best. You may not need any artificial assistance such as botox or surgery of any sort.
For example, ladies who have curly hair often complain about how unruly it can get. You might be surprised but that may be what your fiance likes about you. You yourself may actually like your curly hair, if it would just please behave for the big day. Instead of having your hair straightened, why not simply have your hair cut to suit your curls. You will look less messy if your hair is cut in layers and thinned out, without taking out the curls. Finding a stylist who truly knows how to work with curly hair may be the greatest gift you can give yourself for your wedding.
Speaking of hair, you may want to get rid of the unsightly facial hair over your lip. No, you don’t need to shave. You may however want to check out the option to bleach the hair so it seems invisible against your skin. The other option is to wax it off - have a professional do this as it can be painful to the uninitiated. They’ll make it as quick and painless as possible for you. Hair removal of the face is best trusted to professionals.
If you think that your face lacks that glow that every bride should have, don’t panic. The answer may be as simple as drinking multi-vitamins. Let’s face it, everyone gets stressed during the day. You are probably trying to do more than your usual work load which can put strain. Guess the first place that stress normally shows? If you answered your skin, give yourself a pat. Specifically, it normally shows on your face’s skin. Once your body gets the right amount of vitamins and minerals it needs, your skin will have that natural glow you’ve been looking for.
Ladies, we often reshape our eyebrows as we grow older. We are told that it looks better if we make it thinner and the arch higher. You may be surprised to learn that nature actually gave you the perfect eyebrows for your face. You just needed to clean it up a little. Allow your brows to grow back and then make them a bit neater. You’ll be amazed at how beautiful your natural arch is and you won’t have that surprised, too arched look that some ladies get n their pictures.
If you don’t smile much because you think you have bad teeth, go see a dentist and find out what you can do about it. Sometimes a beautiful smile can just a few hours away. Whitening your teeth for example can even be done gradually, simply by getting rid of your caffeine habit, stop smoking and use whitening toothpaste regularly. No fuss, no muss, just whiter teeth.
How To Have Beautiful Hair For Your Wedding
November 4, 2006 by Lesley-Ann Graham
Filed under Health & Beauty
Your wedding is coming up really soon. You are absolutely excited. This is the moment you’ve been dreaming of for years. You will finally be man and wife. Everything is going well except that….well…you can’t decide what to do about your hair.
For some the problem may be as simple as they really don’t want to wear their hair up. Others may simply be unused to having their hair piled on their head. A few may actually want to have the same hairstyle they’ve always had.
In cases like these, the answer is simple - just keep trying out hairstyles until you find one you like. Work with your hair stylist to find a do that is flattering to you and suits your dress and make-up.
Check out bridal magazines, bridal books and even regular celebrity magazines. The perfect arrangement for your tresses may be on the pages of your favorite glossy. The moment you find a style you like, set it aside. Bring it with you the next time you see your hair stylist so that you can try it out and see if it is a perfect match to your needs.
Ladies, it is a good idea not to wash your hair on the day of your wedding or the night before. Your hair will respond better if it washed twenty-four hours before styling. You’ll be glad you didn’t wash your tresses when you see how much easier it wil be to style your hair.
Don’t let dandruff or an itchy scalp ruin your wedding day. These can be treated (in fact, the sooner the better) so that you won’t look awkward on your big day. Different hair problems have different solutions. Sometimes the answer may be as simple as eating properly. Eating more fruits and vegetables can do wonders in helping your hair and scalp look and feel better.
Never underestimate the power of water. You need water to cleanse your body, internally as well as externally. Washing your hair may not take care of the problem. You may be dehydrated or simply not drinking enough for your body to clean up your oils and toxins. The results sometimes show on your hair and scalp. So drink up!
Speaking of washing, sometimes the problem is caused by using the wrong hair products. You might want to check the shampoo you use. It might be the wrong type for your hair causing build up. Simply changing your brand might help.
You may also want to lay off the styling products for a while as well. Too much chemicals can cause your hair to become dry and brittle. The strands then break easily resulting in split ends. Allow your hair to rest and recover. Go for a more natural, simpler look for your do’s without all the goo, at least until the wedding.
You may also want to try this natural remedy for dandruff or an itchy scalp. Take some lemon juice and using a cotton ball, rub it over your scalp. Let it sit for about two minutes then rinse off. It may sting a little so go slowly. Another alternative is to use apple cider vinegar. You can dilute it (3/4 cup apple cider vinegar to 1/4 cup water) and use it as a rinse for your scalp and hair. Don’t forget to shampoo after to wash off the smell of the vinegar.
Wedding Hair Woes Part II
October 22, 2006 by Lesley-Ann Graham
Filed under Health & Beauty
Halloween is coming up soon but that is no reason for you to look a fright on your wedding day. Save the pale face and bizarre hair for next year’s trick or treat gathering. This time around you absolutely do not want to look ghoulish or ghastly.
- It’s one thing to have your hair piled on top of your head, it’s quite another to look like there’s a nest sitting on top of your crown. The days when women looked like they had beehives or wore wire contraption wigs is quite over. You may want to tiss your hair a little bit, just to give a bit of style and body to your hair but don’t let your hair stand more than 2 inches above the roots unless you are indeed the bride of Frankenstein.
- Don’t let your hair stylist make you look like a moose. Many a bride allows the hair stylist to dictate the way their hair will look. They end with a style so elaborate that they can’t believe they paid for the mess, yet don’t have the heart or the time to have it changed. Ladies, the secret is to have a trial run. Don’t wait til the wedding day to be surprised. Take the time to work with your stylist weeks before to find the wedding do of your choice. It will only take about an hour of your time if you come well prepared. If you don’t, the resulting frightful hair day will be your fault and no one else’s. Can you say Gordian knots?
- Your stylist may tell you that she wants to cut your hair. Depending on how deeply you trust your stylist, you may agree or disagree with her suggestion. As a general rule though, no drastic hair style changes are made a day or two before the wedding. The hair will after all need to be prepped for the elaborate style that may suit your bridal look.
- Too many pins cause a bride to feel anything but happy on her wedding day. How in the world can you have fun if your scalp is being pricked by a pin or is sore and itchy from the clamps holding your hair in place. Find hair pins that are comfortable for you to use and are stylish at the same time. Use styling aids to help keep your hair in place. Make sure to tell your stylist immediately if any pin hurts so that it can be adjusted.
- Lastly, if your hair is pulled too tight say so right away. How in the world are you supposed to enjoy your own wedding if you feel like your scalp is stretched and pulled and generally too tight? You’ll end up with a headache or worse, a migraine. Better to go for a softer style than feel like you have an instrument of torture right beneath the veil.
Don’t forget that your hair is supposed to be your crowning glory and help enhance your beauty on this very special day. Don’t let anyone give you a style that won’t work for you.
Wedding Hair Woes
October 20, 2006 by Lesley-Ann Graham
Filed under Health & Beauty
Some ladies think that the hair doesn’t matter. Just tie the hair, stick the veil on it and you’re ready for the wedding. For some, it truly is that simple. These are the ladies blessed with naturally beautiful hair who have probably been fixing it themselves since they were in kindergarten. It really isn’t true for the majority of us.
Hair isn’t impossible to fix. It is just that weddings are a truly major special occasion. If there is one day where the brides are vain enough to want to really look beautiful, it is this day. No holds barred, no expenses spared is how most ladies feel about this day.
Common hair woes include:
- Hair too frizzy - On the day that we wish we had long lustrous locks, all you have are strands of coarse, wire like strands standing up every which way. Ladies, don’t wait until the last minute to work on your hair. You can do a little something everyday to help get your hair wedding day ready.Frizzy hair is caused by your hair being too light and too dry. It can be dried out by the sun, the wrong products and even too much styling.If you’ve left it to the last second, don’t worry. As long as you have a good hair stylist, they’ll find a way. Water is actually their best tool to deal with the frizzies - it is the best natural moisturizer. They may also utilize a hair iron to straighten your hair, just for this occasion.
- Uncooperative hair - hair that has a mind of its own can be a headache. Rather than struggle with it yourself and become upset, call in an expert. Sometimes it is simply a case of you having too much on your mind and too much stress. Don’t take it out on your hair. Relax and let your hair be attended to. You’ll be amazed at how your moods can affect your hair.
- Hair too short - before you decide to start growing your hair and hating the way it looks, why not simply try out some looks with short hair? The solution may simply lie in the kind of veil you wear. It may simply mean adding same accessories like some jeweled pins to soften the look. You may want to just add some extensions or accent braids or try a wig. You’ll be amazed at how many options you have. Don’t wait til the last minute though. The sooner you talk this over with your hair stylist, the better prepared she will be to create your dream wedding do.
- Can’t find a stylist I like - The best hair stylists are expensive which is why a lot of women can’t find one. The earlier you go shopping for a stylist the better. Ask around. Check with friends who have hair that you admire and find out who does their hair. Don’t be afraid to inquire at a salon you’ve never been to. True professionals will be more than happy to answer a few questions since it means possible business for them. Find the person with whom you are comfortable, the one to whom you feel no dread when your hair is within reach of their scissors and have some trial runs. You’ll find him or her.
Get Into Shape Together
September 28, 2006 by Lesley-Ann Graham
Filed under Health & Beauty
Many a bride is concerned about getting slimmer just for the wedding day. That often means that they feel pressured to get fit. They will willingly get into crash diets and sign up for gym memberships just to try to achieve that one size smaller waistline they’d like to have for their wedding day.
What most brides realize is that doing so puts pressure on the groom as well. Now, that can be a good thing. This means that both halves of the couple are working to get healthier. Whoever said they had to do it alone and separate? Why not just do it together and motivate each other?
There are any number of physical activities that a couple can do together to get fit. Depending on one’s interest, the range varies from simple walking together everyday to maybe doing extreme sports together. The sky literally is the limit. Some couples actually decide to get into an activity in preparation for their honeymoon.
For example, a couple who love the beach would most likely choose to have a vacation somewhere near water as well. Working out together, they can encourage each other with thoughts of how great they’ll look in their swim suits. If they are into water sports, they can work out together in preparation for trying something new like scuba diving. The preparation for that will usually be weeks ahead of time (taking classes together) and they do have to be able to rely on each other as partners. That is great motivation to get into shape together.
Dancing is a physical activity that is practical for a couple to get into together. Think of it as preparation for the first dance. Dancing gives you a high impact work out and you get to hold each other close while learning how to move together on the dance floor. Learn to do a fancy move or two just to surprise yourselves. You’ll be able to strut your stuff at your reception and amaze your guests at how absolutely hot you look together on the dance floor.
Why don’t you just enroll in a gym together? You can be motivation for each other to work out, especially on those days when you feel you have a million and one excuses not to go. You can flirt with each other while you lift weights or just talk about your coming life together while you run on the treadmill.
If running is something you both enjoy, why not challenge each other to prepare for a marathon? The point of joining this kind of race isn’t to win, though that’s a cool thing. The goal is to finish. Choose a race that neither of you have joined and you’ll need to prepare for. You can help each other get stronger and go farther each time. Before you know it you’ll be in great shape for the competition and your wedding.
How about going cycling together? You can learn to ride bikes meant for two or just go mountain biking together. It’ll be great for the heart, lungs, legs and derriere. You also burn a lot of calories with this kind of a work out and you get to see some great sites.
Just don’t forget that it has to be something that you both enjoy or one (or both) of you will quit and that’s the last thing you want. Keep it fun and effective and you may just amaze yourself at how great you both look as you walk down the aisle together.

