Wedding Tip: Keep Away From The Scissors

Generally speaking, women express themselves through their hair. The way that a lady fixes her hair shows what kind of mood she wants to set or how she feels about herself. Some choose a short, no mess cut - and usually these ladies are pretty straightforward in most of their decision making. Others opt for a longer but still wash and wear style - these are usually busy ladies who like looking glamorous but don’t have much time to waste on primping. Then there are those to whom long hair is a must for both versatility and style - these are for the ladies who feel that looking great is never a bother and adapting is as important as breathing. All are great looks.

Have you ever noticed though that the hair is often reflective of ones moods? When you are having a tough day, do you sometimes find that your hair is a bit more unruly than usual? It can often seem like you have a bad hair day on the days when things just aren’t going your way. The most common reaction if the woman gets really frustrated - chop off all the locks! Poor, poor tresses will now lie on the salon floor.

Now, that would be ok if the style that comes out is a major improvement. Here’s a dilemma though…you’re wedding is just a few weeks away! Your gown was designed with your previous style in mind. All you can do is find a good stylist who can help you make the most of your new look.

Hopefully though, you are reading this with your wedding months away and this scene can be averted. First off, don’t let your temper get the best of your hair. Rather than going for the scissors, ask for a hot oil or hair spa treatment instead. These are both soothing for you and reconditioning for your locks.

Next, the moment that you have made up your mind to get married, make sure that you have a great hairstylist and stick to just him or her. Ensure that they know about your wedding - naturally one assumes that they will be making your wedding do for you. This will help minimize any damage should you get into a snit and take it out on your poor tresses. Your stylist can either prevent you from chopping off any necessary lengths or can make sure the style will still go well with your wedding look - and still sooth your mood.

If you’ve already gone and done the deed, well, if you have time, your hair will grow back. If the wedding is too close by, there are always hair extensions and wigs. It is amazing how quickly these hair pieces can transform your look with a few well placed weaves. Again, it is best placed by an expert since you don’t want any bits and pieces falling out during the wedding ceremony or reception.

Don’t forget: On a bad hair or bad mood day, keep away from the scissors and talk to the stylist you trust. That will help keep your gorgeous locks safe until the wedding.

How To Have Beautiful Hair For Your Wedding

Your wedding is coming up really soon. You are absolutely excited. This is the moment you’ve been dreaming of for years. You will finally be man and wife. Everything is going well except that….well…you can’t decide what to do about your hair.

For some the problem may be as simple as they really don’t want to wear their hair up. Others may simply be unused to having their hair piled on their head. A few may actually want to have the same hairstyle they’ve always had.

In cases like these, the answer is simple - just keep trying out hairstyles until you find one you like. Work with your hair stylist to find a do that is flattering to you and suits your dress and make-up.

Check out bridal magazines, bridal books and even regular celebrity magazines. The perfect arrangement for your tresses may be on the pages of your favorite glossy. The moment you find a style you like, set it aside. Bring it with you the next time you see your hair stylist so that you can try it out and see if it is a perfect match to your needs.

Ladies, it is a good idea not to wash your hair on the day of your wedding or the night before. Your hair will respond better if it washed twenty-four hours before styling. You’ll be glad you didn’t wash your tresses when you see how much easier it wil be to style your hair.

Don’t let dandruff or an itchy scalp ruin your wedding day. These can be treated (in fact, the sooner the better) so that you won’t look awkward on your big day. Different hair problems have different solutions. Sometimes the answer may be as simple as eating properly. Eating more fruits and vegetables can do wonders in helping your hair and scalp look and feel better.

Never underestimate the power of water. You need water to cleanse your body, internally as well as externally. Washing your hair may not take care of the problem. You may be dehydrated or simply not drinking enough for your body to clean up your oils and toxins. The results sometimes show on your hair and scalp. So drink up!

Speaking of washing, sometimes the problem is caused by using the wrong hair products. You might want to check the shampoo you use. It might be the wrong type for your hair causing build up. Simply changing your brand might help.

You may also want to lay off the styling products for a while as well. Too much chemicals can cause your hair to become dry and brittle. The strands then break easily resulting in split ends. Allow your hair to rest and recover. Go for a more natural, simpler look for your do’s without all the goo, at least until the wedding.

You may also want to try this natural remedy for dandruff or an itchy scalp. Take some lemon juice and using a cotton ball, rub it over your scalp. Let it sit for about two minutes then rinse off. It may sting a little so go slowly. Another alternative is to use apple cider vinegar. You can dilute it (3/4 cup apple cider vinegar to 1/4 cup water) and use it as a rinse for your scalp and hair. Don’t forget to shampoo after to wash off the smell of the vinegar.

Wedding Hair Woes Part II

Halloween is coming up soon but that is no reason for you to look a fright on your wedding day. Save the pale face and bizarre hair for next year’s trick or treat gathering. This time around you absolutely do not want to look ghoulish or ghastly.

• It’s one thing to have your hair piled on top of your head, it’s quite another to look like there’s a nest sitting on top of your crown. The days when women looked like they had beehives or wore wire contraption wigs is quite over. You may want to tiss your hair a little bit, just to give a bit of style and body to your hair but don’t let your hair stand more than 2 inches above the roots unless you are indeed the bride of Frankenstein.
• Don’t let your hair stylist make you look like a moose. Many a bride allows the hair stylist to dictate the way their hair will look. They end with a style so elaborate that they can’t believe they paid for the mess, yet don’t have the heart or the time to have it changed. Ladies, the secret is to have a trial run. Don’t wait til the wedding day to be surprised. Take the time to work with your stylist weeks before to find the wedding do of your choice. It will only take about an hour of your time if you come well prepared. If you don’t, the resulting frightful hair day will be your fault and no one else’s. Can you say Gordian knots?
• Your stylist may tell you that she wants to cut your hair. Depending on how deeply you trust your stylist, you may agree or disagree with her suggestion. As a general rule though, no drastic hair style changes are made a day or two before the wedding. The hair will after all need to be prepped for the elaborate style that may suit your bridal look.
• Too many pins cause a bride to feel anything but happy on her wedding day. How in the world can you have fun if your scalp is being pricked by a pin or is sore and itchy from the clamps holding your hair in place. Find hair pins that are comfortable for you to use and are stylish at the same time. Use styling aids to help keep your hair in place. Make sure to tell your stylist immediately if any pin hurts so that it can be adjusted.
• Lastly, if your hair is pulled too tight say so right away. How in the world are you supposed to enjoy your own wedding if you feel like your scalp is stretched and pulled and generally too tight? You’ll end up with a headache or worse, a migraine. Better to go for a softer style than feel like you have an instrument of torture right beneath the veil.

Don’t forget that your hair is supposed to be your crowning glory and help enhance your beauty on this very special day. Don’t let anyone give you a style that won’t work for you.

Wedding Hair Woes

Some ladies think that the hair doesn’t matter. Just tie the hair, stick the veil on it and you’re ready for the wedding. For some, it truly is that simple. These are the ladies blessed with naturally beautiful hair who have probably been fixing it themselves since they were in kindergarten. It really isn’t true for the majority of us.

Hair isn’t impossible to fix. It is just that weddings are a truly major special occasion. If there is one day where the brides are vain enough to want to really look beautiful, it is this day. No holds barred, no expenses spared is how most ladies feel about this day.

Common hair woes include:

• Hair too frizzy - On the day that we wish we had long lustrous locks, all you have are strands of coarse, wire like strands standing up every which way. Ladies, don’t wait until the last minute to work on your hair. You can do a little something everyday to help get your hair wedding day ready.Frizzy hair is caused by your hair being too light and too dry. It can be dried out by the sun, the wrong products and even too much styling.If you’ve left it to the last second, don’t worry. As long as you have a good hair stylist, they’ll find a way. Water is actually their best tool to deal with the frizzies - it is the best natural moisturizer. They may also utilize a hair iron to straighten your hair, just for this occasion.
• Uncooperative hair - hair that has a mind of its own can be a headache. Rather than struggle with it yourself and become upset, call in an expert. Sometimes it is simply a case of you having too much on your mind and too much stress. Don’t take it out on your hair. Relax and let your hair be attended to. You’ll be amazed at how your moods can affect your hair.
• Hair too short - before you decide to start growing your hair and hating the way it looks, why not simply try out some looks with short hair? The solution may simply lie in the kind of veil you wear. It may simply mean adding same accessories like some jeweled pins to soften the look. You may want to just add some extensions or accent braids or try a wig. You’ll be amazed at how many options you have. Don’t wait til the last minute though. The sooner you talk this over with your hair stylist, the better prepared she will be to create your dream wedding do.
• Can’t find a stylist I like - The best hair stylists are expensive which is why a lot of women can’t find one. The earlier you go shopping for a stylist the better. Ask around. Check with friends who have hair that you admire and find out who does their hair. Don’t be afraid to inquire at a salon you’ve never been to. True professionals will be more than happy to answer a few questions since it means possible business for them. Find the person with whom you are comfortable, the one to whom you feel no dread when your hair is within reach of their scissors and have some trial runs. You’ll find him or her.