Pets at the Wedding

June 17, 2006 by Lesley-Ann Graham  
Filed under Wedding Planning Tips

You first met on the street outside your apartment. He was walking his dog, Scamp, and you got tangled up in the leash. Though you weren’t exactly thrilled at the time, you managed to become friends and fall in love. Cupid came in the form of man’s best friend.

Now, you’re getting ready to walk down the aisle and become a family. You want all the members of your family present. That includes Scamp, after all, he played a major part in getting the two of you together.

Weddings with pets aren’t as uncommon as they used to be. Society has become more accepting of the fact that we have strong bonds to our pets that makes them truly family.It does mean, however, that additional preparations must be made.

First off, you need to keep in mind that not all venues will allow you to bring in your pet, no matter how small. This includes most hotels and churches. You would need to look for a place that will allow you to have your four legged friend present. It is best that you are upfront with your plan to include your pet when you make your inquiries and discussions with all the vendors assisting you for your wedding.

The kind of pet you have is also something to consider when choosing your venue. Toy dogs such as toy poodles aren’t very big and look like stuffed toys. In fact, a well trained pet may sit so still that they are mistaken for dolls and really aren’t that much of a problem.

On the other hand, big dogs like german shepherds or rottweiler are bound to scare those of your guests and waiters who are not used to dogs. You don’t want to give anyone a heart attack do you? That is one of the reasons why restaurants or hotels have a no pet policy.

Let’s not even talk about if your pet is a lizard, rat or iguana. Reptiles and predators make a lot of people nervous. Have mercy on your guests.

There is also the question of how well trained is your pet. Are they capable of behaving during the ceremony and reception? Your wedding would definitely be spoiled if you had a barking dog running after a stray cat, crashing through the decor. If they aren’t trained, it may be better to keep them at home.

Of course, it would help if you have someone who can take care of your pet during the entire event. You may want to hire someone but it is best if the handler is someone who your pet is familiar with and can properly care for him. A pet handler will ensure that you and your pet will have no worries about his care on the wedding day.

You also have to decide what role your pet will play during your ceremony. Is he your best dog or ring bearer? Will she be your flower dog? It is important that you decide what role your pet will play and practice him in his role.Don’t forget your pet’s suit or gown. After all, it is a special occasion.
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