Do What You Love
No two weddings are the same because no two brides (and grooms) are the same. Even twins have different tastes in most things, let alone in weddings. So there is absolutely no reason to fret that your wedding will be like that of anyone else.
Weddings should reflect your values. Some people perceive weddings as nothing more than food after a religious bonding ritual while others see it as a holy union. No matter how else you define it, a wedding celebration is a party, and you are the host. It is all about you and what marriage - not the ceremony- means to you.
One of the best things you can do is to use the things you love as a guide to what your wedding will look like. For example, if you love winter, then hold your wedding at this time of year. You’ll be indoors anyway so the ice and snow aren’t really an issue. It may mean that you’ll hold your ceremony and reception in the same place but that is a good thing (only one expense for the venue).
If both of you are a private people, not really into parties, why change suddenly and throw a grand ball? Have the kind of event that suits your personality. You and your groom will be happier for it.
Your guest list should be made up of the people you love. Invite only those who are special to you. It is not about having big names or celebrities present for your party. Better to have just a few visitors, all of whom are important for you.
If you are a vegetarian why not have a vegetarian menu? It may not be everyone’s favorite meal but it will be true to what you value. There are many dishes that taste great without meat. Just find some really delicious ones that will please even the non-vegetarians attending your nuptials.
Don’t limit yourself to just having the vegetables in the food. Have them on the table as decoration as well. Bowls of fruit are excellent for both decoration and they are edible as well. The kids will love those.
If you love crafting, go ahead and make your own invites and wedding favors. They are a great way to add a personal touch to your wedding. Who knows? It may just earn you a profit someday.
The entertainment should definitely be something you love. If you love ballroom dancing, go ahead and have that kind of entertainment. You’ll want to hire bands that can perform the music well and get everyones feet moving.
Aside from the music for dancing, choose what songs you want to hear sung and who will perform them. If opera is what you love, then go ahead and be like Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes and ask Andrea Bocelli to perform at your wedding. If you have a favorite choir, you may want to ask them to perform your favorite songs for your wedding. Hard for some to imagine, but if hip hop is your thing, who’s to say you can’t have some at your party.
Go ahead and be yourself. You’ll be happier and your wedding will be more memorable; just the way you like it.
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Written by Lesley-Ann on November 14th, 2006 with
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