Building Your Bridal Registry – Things to Consider
May 6, 2007 by Lesley-Ann Graham
Filed under Wedding Planning Tips
The choosing of wedding gifts is probably the only really onerous task there is for wedding guests. It isn’t that people hate giving gifts but coming up with a gift that the couple will really appreciate is something that can be really hard to do unless you know exactly what the couple really wants. This is probably the reason why gift registries are very popular nowadays.
Having a gift registry is really great since guests don’t have to rack their brains thinking of gift ideas but only need to look at the list on your registry and then pick one that they like and are within their budget range. It is also of course very easy for you to make your gift list since you know exactly what you want and need. However, there are some things you should remember to consider when making your list.
1. Your other half – You might get away listing stuff in your gift registry-to-be that you might forget to consult your spouse-to-be. Make sure you also include some of his/her requests and show your own list. That way you both can veto something from the list if you’re not comfortable with something the other has included.
2. Organization – Try to make the list organized so it will be easy for the guests to go through it. List items under specific categories instead of simply listing everything down in random order.
3. Budget variety – Don’t be shy about adding several or many expensive items on the list as long as you have affordable ones there too. Even if you expect most of your guests to be really rich you never know is someone is hard up at the moment. On the other hand even if you expect most of your guests to be closer to broke than rich you also never know if someone just came up with an inheritance or some extra cash and want to shower it on you two.
4. Update the list – This is where any people bungle. They come up with a list, distribute it, but offer no means for the guests to know the latest on whether an item is already taken by someone or not. You have several choices in updating your list. First is to use an online bridal registry, next is to post a number they can call to confirm which gifts they plan on sending (get help from your wedding coordinator or a friend so you won’t need to take the calls), and last is to use a specific store’s registry.


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