Wedding Flowers - What’s in Season?
March 19, 2007 by Lesley-Ann Graham
Filed under Wedding Flowers
Flowers are another important part of any wedding ceremony. Flowers add beauty and freshness – even elegance – to any event, more so to a wedding. That is why wedding planners or couples who are coming up with their dream wedding take great pains to make sure that the flowers for their wedding are perfect. When taking flowers into consideration during your wedding planning stage, it is not enough to just pick out flowers out of the blue.
One of the foremost considerations that wedding planners or a couple should bear in mind is the time of the year the wedding is going to take place. It is not an unbreakable rule, but it is practical to choose flowers that are in season at the time of the wedding. That is, unless you have a lot money and the finances are not part of the equation. However, if you are like a lot of people, you would want to be practical when it comes to your wedding expenses.
Practicality does not have to mean less beauty and quality, though. Choosing the flowers in season during you wedding ceremony is one way to be practical and at the same time make the most out of what is available. Let’s start with spring, as it is the season we are in right now. This is one of the best seasons to get married when it comes to seasonal flowers. Most everything is in bloom and you can have a wide range of choices.
If you have chosen spring as your wedding time, the chances are that you want a fresh and radiant atmosphere for your wedding. The perfect spring flowers for your ceremony would then include roses, tulips, anemones, daffodils, and Lily of the Valley. Roses and tulips are always favorites – you can never go wrong with them. Anemones look a bit like peonies and come in a variety of light and lively colors. Lily of the Valley adds a twist to your floral decoration with its intoxicating fragrance.
For summer, the best flowers to use would be Calla Lilies, Dendrobium orchids, dahlias, daisies, chrysanthemums, and baby’s breath. As you can see, you also have a lot to choose from in the summer. More so, flowers are quite cheap at this time of the year as well.
For fall, you still have quite a range to choose from, though perhaps not the same as summer and spring. You can add more texture and bright dark colors. Make use of grasses, berries, leaves and branches. Just use your imagination and you will surely come up with a unique and astounding floral theme for your fall wedding!
Winter may be the hardest time to find fresh flowers at an affordable price. Yet there is no reason to despair. There are a lot of people getting married during wintertime and flower shops usually have lots of choices all year round. You cannot escape the fact that flowers will probably be more expensive at this time but it does not mean that you can’t find something to suit your budget.
The Wedding Cake
March 17, 2007 by Lesley-Ann Graham
Filed under Wedding Cakes
One of the most important elements in any wedding is the wedding cake. Though it does not last for such a long time – especially if it is good cake – it is by no means a simple thing to set aside. The wedding cake has always been part of the western wedding. If you are planning you wedding right now, chances are that you have been putting a lot of thought into your wedding cake. And why not? It is not everyday that you get to choose a cake for such a special occasion!
Wedding cakes have been around for as long as anyone can remember. Yet if you look deeper into its origins, the modern wedding cake as we know it today is not really the same as the wedding cake in the olden times. In fact, the old wedding cakes – and I mean old – were more like sweet bread than the cakes we use for weddings today. The custom in those days was to break the “cake” over the head of the bride. It does sound nasty, doesn’t it? Yet the reason for this was to wish the bride all the blessings and happiness that she can have for the rest of her life. It is the thought that counts, after all!
Anyhow, today’s wedding cakes are far from what they used in those days – both in looks, taste, and purpose. Wedding cakes today are quite grand and are meant to be eaten by everyone. Still, the wedding cake stands to represent the commitment of the bride and groom to each other for the years to come. So in choosing your wedding cake, you have to take into consideration both the presentation and the taste as well.
It used to be that modern wedding cakes had to made as simple as possible, with vanilla as the flavor. With time, however, wedding cakes began to have a character of their own. It is not uncommon to see unique and distinctly flavored cakes in weddings today. What kind of wedding cake should you choose for your special day?
There are really no strict and fast rules for this. If you favor the traditional white wedding cake, then why not? However, if you want to follow your wedding theme, then all the better! For example, there are couples who follow a Hawaiian wedding theme. They normally incorporate the theme into the wedding cake design. Tropical fruits and flowers are incorporate into the cake. You can also choose to follow the color of your wedding. Icing is all that is needed to decorate the cake and it is easy to do.
As for the flavors, you can choose from a gamut of choices. From the plain vanilla to butter to chocolate to mocha – the choice is yours to make! You can even have the picture cakes that are in fashion these days. Have your favorite photo of the two of you “printed” on the surface of a cake. The idea is basic, really. Decide on what you want and have it done. The important thing is that you are happy with what you have decided on. Cheers!
Choosing Your Wedding-Maternity Dress
March 15, 2007 by Lesley-Ann Graham
Filed under Bride
These days it is not uncommon for pregnant women to get married. As such, there is the need to find special wedding dresses that, we can say, serve as a maternity dress as well. How do you find the perfect wedding cum maternity dress? More so, where can you find one and what are the options available to you? Here are some things to bear in mind when deciding on your wedding-maternity dress.
The first thing that you have to consider is to pick a cut that you like and at the same time shows off your shape best. You may want to choose a cut that has a slimming effect as well. The usual maternity dress is normally shaped like a tent – meant to give the mother to be maximum comfort. However, they might not be the best for your wedding. So, for your wedding, you can choose something that would be both comfortable and stylish as well. Much like for plus size women, you can pick out an a-line cut, which would give you enough breathing room (thus comfort as well) and give you that stylish look at the same time. Another style that would show off your shape is the sheath style. This style is in fact perfect for those who are in their first trimester of pregnancy.
Maternity dresses are usually focused on embellishing the upper part. That is, the bust up. My suggestion is that you go for simplicity. Embroidered bodices are all well and good, as long as you don’t overdo it. Another good idea would be to have plunging necklines, or at least a v-neck. These would emphasize your bust and give you a sexier look.
You should also pay some attention to the material or the fabric. The best choice would be material that would fit snugly. The last thing that you would want to happen is for the material to bulge at the oddest places. What kinds of fabrics would be good then? Organza, silk, and georgette are some examples. Of course, you would have to makes sure that the material type is well suited to the style as well.
At this point, you should be well convinced that being pregnant does not mean that you cannot look your best on your wedding day. In fact, you will probably find a lot of help when it comes to making your decisions about your wedding cum maternity dress. Just look online for design ideas, there are a host of them. If you can afford it, you can even go to specialty stores. If you have more cash to spare, look for a tailor or a dressmaker. They would be more than happy to help you look your best for your wedding!
And remember, the important thing is always your comfort. This is even more important with you, as a mother to be. Do not sacrifice your comfort for style. There is no need for that. With the right ideas and assistance, you will surely be able to come up with the perfect wedding-maternity dress.
Wedding Dresses for the Well Endowed
March 13, 2007 by Lesley-Ann Graham
Filed under Bride
We have to admit it, our society is one which puts more weight on the sleek and slim – no pun intended. Minimalism is at its best these days. However, it seems that more and more people are becoming aware of the reality that not everyone can be like the super models we see on TV and magazines. Believe me, there are probably more women out there who take a look at wedding magazines and wish that the models were more like them – like real women. The fact still remains, however, that it may be quite a task to find a wedding dress for the well endowed woman. Though it may be a little bit difficult, it is not an impossible task. Here are some ideas on how and where you can find the perfect plus size wedding dress.
First of all, know your size. This is common sense, really. Yet more than the size, you should know your body shape. Not all women with the same size have the same shape. Different shapes need different dress styles to make women look their best. For example, women who tend to be curvy would benefit from an a-line cut. This is due to the fact that this cut would skim over the hips, giving an overall slimming effect. Women who tend to be top heavy would benefit from v-cut tops. In general, avoid cuts that tend to make you look squatter.
Once you have determined the best cut or design for your wedding dress, it is time to find out where to get your dress. In general, you have two options for this. First, you can go to retail or department stores, where they will most likely have a large collection of wedding dresses for you to choose from. More than having a large collection, at these stores, you can actually pick out several dresses that catch your eye and try them on. This is as opposed to buying online and hoping and crossing your fingers that the dress will fit you. Remember, even if the dress is labeled the size you want, it does not always mean that the fit will be as you imagine it. Your second option is to go to a tailor. This is in fact the better option that I would recommend. It may cost you a little bit more but the advantage of having a dress made to fit you beats anything else. I am sure that you can find a suitable dressmaker in your town – or the surrounding towns – who would be able to come up with the perfect dress for you at a reasonable price.
Another thing to bear in mind, do not compromise your comfort for style or price. Remember that you are going to wear that dress on what can be the most important day of your life. You wouldn’t want to be squeamish about wearing that dress, would you? So if you have the slightest doubts about a dress you are considering, you probably should think it over. It is your time to shine, so make you sure that you will!
Deciding On Your Wedding Attire
March 11, 2007 by Lesley-Ann Graham
Filed under Wedding Attire
This is perhaps one of the most time consuming and crucial decisions that you would have to make once you have decided to get married. For women, especially, the wedding attire is one of the foremost considerations for the wedding day. This day is the day for the bride to shine and perhaps the most outstanding element is her gown.
Tradition has it that the bride has to wear white. This is to symbolize the purity of the bride at the wedding altar. Though it may not be the idea behind many people’s minds today, we still see a lot of brides wear white on their wedding day. This does not mean, however, that you have to wear a white gown or dress if you do not want to. There is absolutely no law or decree forcing you to do so. In the end, the decision is up to you. What you want is what you should follow.
Where can you find the perfect gown or dress for your wedding? There are many options for today’s bride. The easiest would be to visit your local bridal shops. These shops specialize in weddings and as such will probably be able to assist you with your needs. They will be able to offer their expertise to you. You can either choose dresses or gowns off the rack or have one made especially for you. For the former, one advantage would be the price. Compared to made to order dresses or gowns, the off the rack ones would cost considerably less. You would also have a lot of choices to pick from. However, the advantage of made to order gowns or dresses is that you would have more flexibility regarding the style and design of your gown. This option is perfect for those who have a specific design in mind already. All you have to do is draw it on paper and they will make it for you. Of course, you have to be ready to pay the price, which is considerably more than the ready to wear gown.
Another option would be to look on the Internet. Traditionalists will probably balk at this idea but it quite practical. In today’s society, we can buy everything off the Net – and usually at a cheaper price! More so, we have a wide variety of options when it comes to shopping online. Another advantage of shopping online is the time factor. For people who are pressed for time, shopping online frees up your time for other things. However, you would have to take into consideration that you cannot fit the gown until it is shipped to you. You might have to have it changed or altered and this would also take some time.
As for the groom, the shopping ideas are basically the same – maybe even easier. Getting a tux is perhaps less complicated than buying a wedding gown. Some men even agree to just renting a tux!
It really is up to you, how you want to go about it. The important thing is that you are happy with your choice and that you will look radiant when your day comes.

